Sunday, December 28, 2014

Will You Keep Your New Years Resolutions?

Your New Year's Resolutions Will Fail (Again) - Unless You Do This!

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New Year’s Day is just ahead and we’ll all set off on the road to hell; you know, the one paved with good intentions.

We’ll set goals and truly believe that we will lose weight, go to the gym, increase our sales, get a new job, spend more time with the kids or something else.
No we won’t. We’ll keep pigging out, avoiding exercise, posting average sales numbers, tolerating our crummy jobs, and opting to work late.
How do I know? Because studies show that good intentions account for only 20% to 30% of variance in behavior. One recent study even showed that the more positive we are about our good intentions, the worse results we’ll get.

So, the best predictor of what you’ll do in 2015 isn’t what you say you’ll do on January 1.
It’s what you actually did in 2014.

But’s it’s not hopeless
I’d be a hardened pessimist if not for one thing – there’s a magic bullet that can bridge the gap between goal intentions and goal accomplishment.
It’s what behavioral psychologists call “implementation intentions.” Ugly phrase, I know. But it could be the difference between achieving your goals in 2015 and failing miserably.
Tons of research exists on “implementation intentions.” In one landmark study, researchers pooled subjects who intended to start exercising and assigned them to three groups. The Control Group got no input from the researchers. The Experiment Group 1 received educational materials correlating exercise and good cardio-vascular health. And the Experiment Group 2 stated its “implementation intentions” by filling out this form:
During the next week I will partake in at least 20 minutes of vigorous exercise on (day or days) _______________ at _______________ (time of day) at/in (place) _______________.
I assumed the group that got the educational materials would win. I didn’t think filling in a few blanks on a form would make a difference. But look at the results:
goal study Ninety-one percent of the participants in Experiment Group 2 – the ones who wrote down their “implementation intentions” – exercised. Only 29% of the control group and 39% of those who read the health literature exercised.
The results seem implausible. How could writing down what you intend to do make such a big difference?

It’s no surprise to Peter M. Gollwitzer, a psychologist at New York University who’s been studying goal achievement since about 1980. His research has revealed the curious power of implementation intentions, which are anchored by “if-then” statements like the one that’s implied in the form the Experiment 2 participants filled out – “If Tuesday at 8 a.m. arrives, then I will go to the gym.” An implementation intention doesn’t just get specific about the goal. It gets specific about when and where you’re going to do things that will help you achieve it.

Gollwitzer writes in a just-published article that “goal intentions” – even very specific ones such as “I’m going to reach X” – usually don’t succeed. But those “if-then” statements do succeed because they “link critical situational cues with instrumental goal-directed responses.” In other words, Gollwitzer writes, “If situation Y is encountered, then I will perform the goal-directed response Z.”

I called Gollwitzer at NYU and asked him why our brains process if-then statements so differently from mere goal intentions. “When you have a goal intention – ‘I want to achieve an outcome’ – the ‘I’ is in the middle of it,” he said. “It’s a top-down regulation of action. It’s me who regulates where I want to go. The if-then plan delegates the control to an external stimulus. It links the situation to the response, so it’s the stimulus, not you, that controls the action. It’s a switch from top-down to bottom-up.”

That’s the magic of writing down if-then statements – they automate the response. They effectively trick our brains. You do what you said you were going to do unconsciously, very much like a habit.
The irony is that to get this unconscious action to take place, you have to take the very conscious step of figuring out the specific situations where you want to trigger a response, then writing down your plan. “The forming of the plan is conscious,” Gollwitzer explains. “The execution is unconscious.”
I put implementation intentions to the test recently. I wrote down on a Sunday night that Monday, Wednesday and Friday of the coming week I’d go to the gym and up my 20 minutes on the treadmill to 30 minutes. On Monday I achieved my goal. On Wednesday I woke up tired and really didn’t feel like exercising. But I went to the gym. After 15 minutes on the treadmill I started telling myself I wasn’t going to make it.
 
But I’d anticipated this and back on Sunday night I deployed a related implementation intentions trick. I composed a second note to myself: “If I get to the point where I want to quit, then I will focus intently on my audiobook and tune out the pain and fatigue I’m feeling.”

I was able to do that. At the 15-minute mark, I flipped a switch and immersed myself in Margaret Atwood’s novel Oryx and Crake, eyes closed. I had an IV to narrator Campbell Scott, hearing not just the story but also his phrasing, the timbre of his voice. When I finally opened my eyes the timer on the treadmill showed 10 minutes had passed. I’d busted through the barrier. The last five minutes were easy. On Friday I hit my goal again.

Okay, what’s that prove? It was just one week. But I can attest that even though I didn’t want to go on Wednesday, I never came close to caving. I’d written it down. I’d committed. My brain complied. And the audiobook trick worked surprisingly well when I encountered an obstacle.

Gollwitzer cites a number of surprising studies proving that implementation intentions work. In one, students were asked to write an optional paper over Christmas break. Of those who wrote down when and where they’d write the paper, two-thirds of them did it. Of those who did not create implementation intentions, none completed the task.

Studies have demonstrated that implementation intentions helped people not just get started but stay on track when trying to recycle, vote, lose weight, conduct medical self-evaluations, take daily medication and ride public transportation.

Gollwitzer says implementation intentions have the potential to help us manage people in the workplace as well. Most managers rely on the well-known S.M.A.R.T. model – creating goals that are Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant and Time-bound. That model is better than nothing but, observes Gollwitzer, “the distance between goal setting and goal attainment is often long.”

To bridge that gap, Gollwitzer suggests that managers can get their team members to draft if-then statements that map desired actions to trigger events. And then draft a second set of if-then statements describing what they’ll do when they encounter inevitable obstacles.

Back to those New Year’s resolutions. In the next month we’ll do the easy work of setting goals for 2015. Just like we always have. But maybe this time we’ll trick our brains with if-then statements. For some crazy reason the gray matter between our ears responds to these statements automatically, without conscious intent. And – surprise – we actually do what we said we were going to do.

Friday, January 29, 2010

Will Smith Wisdom

Will Smith is without a doubt one of the most successful actors in the world. He is not only successful in entertainment, but in philanthropy, humanitarian efforts, as well as a father and a husband.

What makes him so special? Or is he? Listen to his philosophy on success and what it takes for ANYONE to achieve their dreams.



Now go turn your 'unrealistic' dreams into realty.

Ready, GO!

Gail Turner Brown

Tuesday, January 19, 2010


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Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Do You Have The FUBU Mentality?

Do you know Daymon John? He is the CEO of FUBU which designs clothing for young people.
Daymon started with $40 and now has a $6 billion dollar business.

How'd he do it? I'm glad you asked. He attributes a lot of his success to street smarts. Whati street smarts and how can you apply it to your business?

Well take a listen to him as he talks to Donny Deustch and see if you have what it takes -




The key here again is to TAKE ACTION! Don't just ponder on your idea and don't wait until everything is perfect! It will never happen. The time is now because that is all you have.

So take what you know, along with your burning desire and you will break through any obstacle that stands in your way.

Ready, GO!

Gail


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Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Are You a Toilet Paper Entrepreneur? 8 Attributes of a TPE

When was the last time you were in the bathroom and there was no more toilet paper?

How did you react? What did you do?

According to Mike Michalowicz, best selling author of The Toilet Paper Entrepreneur and one of the featured cast members of the latest blockbuster hit DVD The Yes Movie, what you do could determine your success as an entrepreneur.

Check him out right here.






Mike Michalowicz, Author of The Toilet Paper Entrepreneur - The 8 TPE Attributes - Website Video from Toilet Paper on Vimeo.



Okay got it, good! Now what'ya gonna do. Stop reading and TAKE ACTION!

Ready, GO!

Gail

How to Make Your First Million

Did you ever wonder what it takes to make your first million?

As a blog contributor for Mike Michalowicz best selling author of TPE - The Toilet Paper Entrepreneur, I along with 49 other entrepreneurs, was tasked with providing 1 tip that would answer that question.

Here is my response -The best way to make 1 million dollars is to make $1.

Everyone wants to make a million and haven't figure out the formula to make $1 dollar. Though it is great to have a lofty goal, it makes more sense to determine the right strategies and tactical implementation to create that first dollar.

If you don’t know how to create a dollar, how would you create a million? It is the same as
the answers to the “How do you eat an elephant?, one bite at a time”. In other words
small, consistent, incremental steps is how to get to your destination.

If you know that $1 million dollars is your ultimate goal, then work backwards to determine what steps are necessary to achieve your goal.

Here are some ways to determine what actions steps are needed
to make your first dollar.

1. How long are you willing to allow to reach your goal?
if you say I want to make a million dollars by tomorrow and have never
created any money on your own before, it would be unrealistic to believe
you would accomplish your goal. However if you give yourself 1 – 5 years, then
you will increase your chances and avoid disappointment.

2. Begin at the end. Back track from your desired goal and determine how much you would
need to earn in a month. Then how much you would need to earn daily. By creating chunks
of time, you make sure your goal is not only obtainable but you then have a gauge to work
with.

3. Next figure out how many sales are necessary to meet your daily or monthly target. You
must design a funnel system to place your target audience in. That way you can calculate
your ratio of how many people do I need to talk to before a sale is made.

4. Then repeat this process until you get your million.
You have to work with your system, adjusting and tweaking along the way until you hit your
mark. Use models , mentors and coaches to help you stay on track. Then make that first $1
and rejoice because when you have creating that formula, you know you are on the right
pace to get to the finish line.

There is a Chinese proverb that states ‘the journey of a million miles start with a single step”. So it is with a million dollars. Take that first step to reach a dollar and the million is not far behind.
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There you have it! Want to get the other 49 tips from great entrepreneurs?
Click here to discover more on how to make your first million.

Much Success in 2010!

Gail


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Tuesday, January 5, 2010

The Year of Credit Empowerment





Happy New Year! Whew, 2010 can you believe it?

I think we can agree that the last decade has been a bit of a rollercoaster can't we?

It's been a challenging year and overall decade for many people, but this is the time to get empowered and take control. When things get their toughest is when we really discover what we're made of and we can dig deep within ourselves to use the power and energy inside to turn things around.

I'm sure you've set up your 'resolutions' and goals for the upcoming year, right?

If you made a decision to get your credit and finances in order this year, we are on it!
Credit affects every aspect of our life and the banks and lending institutions are making it more and more difficult to come by.

From slashing credit lines, to hiking interest rates to making it more difficult to get credit in the first place, banks are putting on the pressure and it is up to us to be ready to meet and overcome whatever comes our way.

There's lots happening this year. New credit card protection laws, consumer protection bill just to name of few which you'll need to know about and how it will affect you, your credit and money.

In the coming weeks, I will make available tons of information and resources so you will be armed with the ammunition you need to take the action necessary for you to be in control of your financial destiny.

So roll up your sleeves and get ready to make 2010 the most empowering year ever!

Gail

P.S. Oh, I forgot to mention, if you haven't done this already, a great start for the
new year is to get a copy of your credit report. It's like stepping on the scale before
you start your weight loss program.

It may be painful and you don't really want to look, but.. you'll know your starting point
and how close your are to reaching your goal! So don't be afraid, it's just a number and numbers can't hurt you.

You can start here www.annualcreditreport.com (It's FREE!) your report only OR
www.creditchecktotal.com all 3 reports and 3 scores. (it's free 9 day trial)

Stop reading and go get that done! Okay, see ya